Evaluations, Therapy and Service Coordination

Provided for Children Birth through Age 5

NYS Early Intervention and CPSE

Evaluations, Therapy and Service Coordination

Provided for Children Birth through Age 5

NYS Early Intervention and CPSE

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Up Wee Grow, Inc. is an agency approved by the NYS Early Intervention and CPSE programs to provide evaluations and services to children and families in their homes and schools, In-Person (or via Telehealth). Evaluations and Therapies are provided for children from birth through age 5 in Suffolk County, Nassau County, and all 5 Boroughs of New York City.

* Evaluations * Therapy * Service Coordination *

Our services are provided to children by fully licensed therapists and certified teachers through the New York State Early Intervention Program and the New York State Board of Education Committee for Preschool Special Education.

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ABA - Applied Behavior Analysis

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Psychology

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Service Coordination

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Speech Therapy

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Occupational Therapy

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Audiology

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Special Education

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Physical Therapy

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Social Work

Serving seven counties of New York State: Suffolk | Nassau | Queens | Brooklyn | Bronx | Manhattan |  Staten Island

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Birth To 3

Early Intervention

Birth To 3 - Early Intervention

Up Wee Grow, Inc. is approved by New York State and has contracts with Suffolk, Nassau, New York City, and Westchester to provide Early Intervention services.

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Ages 3 to 5

CPSE

Ages 3 to 5 - CPSE

If you are concerned about your child's development between the ages of 3 and 5 you may refer him/her to your School District’s Committee for Preschool Special Education (CPSE) to request an evaluation.

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Autism

ABA Program

Autism - ABA Program

Up Wee Grow, Inc. provides the highest quality A.B.A. programming (Applied Behavior Analysis) at the direction of our Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) and Licensed Psychologist (Ph.D.).

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Teaching Techniques for Parents

We teach parents Maximum Strength Parenting through use of F.E.A.T.S. (Family-friendly Evaluation and Teaching System), our comprehensive system to empower parents to promote positive growth across six developmental domains with a multi-modal approach. This includes six interactive charts that we created based on 22 well-normed, peer-reviewed assessment instruments to provide families with realistic guidelines regarding typical developmental milestones in six areas from birth through kindergarten.

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F.E.A.T.S Tips For Parents

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Are you some sort of wise apple?

Nature thrives through giving and receiving.  In order to inhale, we must exhale.  To receive a handshake, we must give one. If the flow of blood and of...
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The Short Tale of WAGE and SAGE

Two old friends (one named “Wage” and the other named “Sage”) crossed paths. Here’s what they said: WAGE:  So how old is your son? SAGE:   2 years, 4 months, 10 days...
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Using a Napkin

“Wipe That (Messy) Look Off Your Face!” Give your child opportunities to wipe his face with a cloth, towel, blanket, tissue and wipes. Point to the napkin and then to...
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Smearing Feces

“UGH” Children sometimes smear their own feces.  Among very young children who are not yet toilet-trained, this behavior is more common than you would think.  It is...
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Shyness

How much of shyness can be attributed to “nature” and how much to “nurture?”  While we cannot say with certainty, it is clear that shyness has a strong...
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What were the names of your great-grandparents? 

Are you just two generations away from being forgotten? These can be biting questions, but, nevertheless, they are questions that beg answers.  “What were the names of...
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How do I know when to Avoid, Teach, Ignore, or Punish?  What is the “Manners Manager”?

You may ask, “So, I know A.T.I.P., but what should I do?”  Just use the ‘Manners Manager’!  To debate specifics about various behaviors is futile because the purpose of...
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Pouring Liquids

“Don’t Cry Over Spilt Milk…Just Learn How To Pour” Position your child in a sturdy position. Demonstrate pouring the liquids into both a cup and a bowl. Give your child...
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Knows Edible vs. Non-Edible

“To Eat or Not To Eat? That is the Question”. Does your child mouth non-edible objects?  If so, take the objects away and present something else.  Give your child an...
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Remaining in Designated Play Areas

“STAY PUT!” Bring your child to a place such as an outside playground, a friend’s house, an indoor play area. Show where your child is allowed to play and explain that...
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“But I’m too busy to be able to teach with all these fancy techniques!”

“F.E.A.T.S.™ Techniques” are specifically designed to be easy to implement, fun, and effective. The “F.E.A.T.S.™ Techniques” are...
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Independently Feeding with a Spoon and Fork

“Fork it Over, and Get The Scoop!” Give your child opportunities to use utensils throughout the day. During play, have your child pretend to cook, eat, and serve.  Take...
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Pulling to a Standing Position

“You’ve Gotta Pull Your Own Weight”   Draw your child’s attention to a favorite toy that you have placed on a couch or low table. Then place your child in various...
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Finger Feeding

“Finger Foods” Eating with the fingers allows your child to enhance skills such as coordination, grasping, and independence.   Introduce foods that are easy to...
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“I tried ‘Time-Out’ and it doesn’t work!”

As indicated above, the term “Time-Out” is an abbreviation and originates from the longer phrase “Time-Out from reinforcement.”  As such, there are many ways to conduct...
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Frustration and Easily “Giving Up”

“My child frustrates very easily…I feel like I’m always walking on eggshells”  When an activity could not be completed or a goal could not be reached, your child’s...
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“TOY-JACKING” – High-Crime or Misdemeanor?

Charles Dickens wrote, “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.”  Indeed, turn-taking, sharing, and social relations can bring out the best (and/or worst)...
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Where there’s a Will there’s a way – The importance of having a Last Will and Testament

Sure it’s an unpleasant topic, and of course, we can’t control the world from the grave, but having a will is an important legal document not only for leaving assets to...
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“At what age can I begin to use ‘Time-Out’?”

Remember that “Time-Out” by definition is a “Punishment” as it is intended to decrease negative behaviors.  Nowhere in the definition is it mentioned that a child must...
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Put Shoes on Correct Feet

“Do You Have Two Left-Feet?” Have your child select a pair of shoes from a pile of several. Encourage your child to sit on the floor or a chair as your child attempts...
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Monitor your own attitude and behavior in this process

Step 5: Monitor your own attitude and behavior in this process You may recall from the previous chapter, the “Dirty-Dozen” reasons why your behavior management efforts...
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“What is the process of a ‘Yes-When Deal’?”

“Processes” are used with most jobs.  Consider two examples: flying to the moon and doing the laundry. When flying to the moon your process is complex: Build a rocket,...
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“I Know I shouldn’t compare kids, but…”

Comparing Kids?  Go Ahead! COMPARE (but do it right): Somewhere along the line, a notion has evolved:  “YOU SHOULDN’T COMPARE KIDS.”  Still, many parents go right on to...
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Tantrums – Tirades and Tyranny

“WHAT is a Tantrum?” tan·trum noun. A fit of bad temper. (according to The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition, Copyright © 2000 by...
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Anxiety and Fear

The expression “Time heals all wounds” is nice, but not entirely true.  Specifically, time heals most wounds, but not anxiety.  For example, if you have a fear of...
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“Show-and-Tell Scaffolding”

“Show and Tell” is an easy way to remember and implement the technique of scaffolding. “SHOW” involves providing your child with...
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“But my child does not care when I withhold privileges”

I have just advocated patience, reasonable criteria in your “Yes-When deals”, and consistency.  But perhaps most importantly, never conclude from your child’s...
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Resistance To Changes

“How do I help my child move past ‘ritualistic’ behaviors so that we can have some ‘smooth sailing'?  How do I decide what is ‘ big deal worth ‘battling’ over?”...
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“But my child doesn’t comply when I offer “Yes-When deals” Instead of obeying, he throws tantrums or hits!”

Everyone wins with “Yes-When deals”, regardless of your child’s response.  Here’s why:  If your child does not give you the compliance that you are requesting in your...
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Indicating a Wet or Soiled Diaper

“HELP! Somebody, Please Save Me (From Myself)!” Observe your child’s verbal and non-verbal signals for indicating a soiled or wet diaper (e.g., vocalizations, hugging,...
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Reality Show

One of the Buddhist noble truths is that “Desire is the root of all suffering.”  In thinking about disappointments, you will no doubt find this to be...
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Quiz: Are you a Democrat, Dictator, or Doormat?

To determine your parenting style, take this little quiz by circling what you would do in each of the following scenarios.  Of course, “it depends on the...
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Real Live Make Believe

“Play” is the instinct of all young beings.  It is observed all over the world, among cubs and calves, and among puppies and pip squeaks.  Play is the fast track to the...
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Placing Outerwear into Assigned Locations

“How Many Times Do I Have To Tell You To HANG UP YOUR COAT!!?” If your child is reluctant to hang up a coat, hat, etc, he may have some difficulty remembering where the...
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“What is this ‘school’ all about?”

In this “school” you will find teaching tips and “F.E.A.T.S.™ Techniques” to help boost your child’s development in the areas of Language (speaking and understanding),...
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How ALL (met and unmet) Expectations Undermine Happiness

It is obvious that expectations decrease happiness when those expectations are not met, but expectations also decrease happiness when they are met!  How?...
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Holding Own Bottle

“Message in a Bottle: MMMMM!” Position your child at a 90-degree angle. Make sure both you and your child are comfortable and supported. Present a bottle to your child,...
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A-Ha!

I was greatly inspired by the book “Single Session Therapy: Maximizing the Effect of the First (and Often Only) Therapeutic Encounter,” by Moshe Talmon.  Psychologists...
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The Gift of Adoption

The first recorded evidence of adoption is in antiquity, yet there has been more change in the world of adoption over just these past five decades than in all of...
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Choosing Appropriate Clothing Based On Weather

“You’re Gonna Get A Cold!” Help your child to learn which clothing is appropriate in different situations. You can use a paper doll (you can make one yourself or you...
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Cooperating with Dressing and Undressing

“Dress-Up: Mess-Up or Yes-Up?” Create a calm and relaxed environment while dressing and undressing your child. Make dressing a fun activity. Sing songs, put on music,...
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Define specific behavior problems/goals

Step 1:  Clearly define a Goal – a specific negative behavior that you want to decrease or a specific positive behavior you want to increase By clearly defining a...
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Should I give ‘warnings’ to my child before implementing ‘Time-out’?

No. If you give your child a warning (or two, or three!) before placing him in “Time-Out,” all you are doing is demonstrating inconsistency, which will undermine the...
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Carefully Compare

“Keeping up with the Joneses” drives the economy.  Making comparisons of oneself to others is one way to “participate” in society (e.g.,...
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Building Abdominal Strength

“Gut Check” Sit on the floor and allow your child to lie face-up on your extended legs.  Bring your child’s feet up toward your chest, then quickly push them away,...
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Head-Banging

It is not especially uncommon for a child to bang his head in the context of a temper tantrum, however, it is important to take head-banging seriously.  Given the...
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Safely Exploring Cabinets and Drawers

“Christopher Columbus, Magellan, and Now: Your Child!” Create opportunities for your child to safely explore household objects. Empty one or two drawer cabinets and...
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“Where did God come from?” asked my 5 year old

It took me a few seconds to get my mind around his question when my 5-year-old son asked one day, “Where did God come from?” On another day, my 4-year-old daughter...
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Running From a Caregiver (in public places)

Many young children run away from their caregivers in public places.  You may find yourself conflicted about how to react, due to anxiety, anger, and/or concern with...
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Your moment, make it a good one

Fast forward many years:  The master plan was kind to you.  Your “moment” has come. You had a nice run, and you’re ready to check out.  Hopefully, you won’t be in too...
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“Forget my child…I wouldn’t mind a little ‘Time-Out’ for myself!”

“Time-out” is as much for you as it is for your child.  Take your child’s “Time-Out” as an opportunity for you to calm down and “take a break.”  You can view his...
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What is Maximum Strength Parenting?

Maximum Strength Parenting is the art of using all of your gifts and knowledge in the most important and influential job you will ever have, parenting. “Maximum” refers...
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“But my child will just ignore me and do whatever he wants on his own.”

Never forget that you control the privileges, and therefore you control the “Yes-When deals.”  If you allow your child to wander off and enjoy freedom after he has...
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Behavior, Understanding & Language:  How are the three related?

Parents and professional often assume that a child’s behavior will improve when his language skills and understanding advance.  While this may be true, it...
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“Morning Express” Yourself: Do you just rise, or do you rise and shine?

If your mornings are too stressful, here are some tips for you’re a.m. routine so that you won’t just rise, you’ll rise and shine.  Go ahead and “express yourself”: 1....
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When All Else Fails – “I have tried everything and nothing @#%^$ works!”

Which category you choose (Avoiding, Teaching, Ignoring, or Punishing) to manage a given negative behavior is less important than your consistency and your...
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“What is the PURPOSE of ‘Time-Out’?”

While “Time-Out” is a simple enough concept, its purpose is subject to great interpretation, complexity, and nuance.  Some say that “Time-Out” is intended to be a...
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“Divide and Conquer”

Alright, maybe the “battle cry” of “divide and conquer” is not especially nice when we’re talking about our children, but I’m quite sure that many of you have been...
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Mother Nature’s guidelines for giving up the bottle/pacifier

There is evidence that babies have used some version of a pacifier for “non-nutritive sucking” since 1,000 B.C. Also, “non-nutritive sucking” begins in the womb and is...
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Kicking A Rolling Ball

“Getting Your Kicks” Have your child stand in one place. You roll a ball directly towards your child. As the ball is near him, state “Kick the ball!” Watch for the...
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The Long-view:  Humane and strong parenting “over the years and through the tears”

Here are two major societal trends: (1) Expectation of Instant Results: We have come to expect instant results.  Within less than 1 second an internet search can return...
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Mommy Cheerist: Do parents have a moral obligation to their children to be happy?

Do parents have a moral obligation to their children to be happy?  First, let’s consider a few things about “happiness.” Dictionary definitions of “happy” include...
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Keep the boat (and behavior) on course: “The Navigator’s Mind-Set”

Medical doctors often strive to cure diseases (e.g., an antibiotic “works” because it “fixes” and eliminates an ear infection), however, it is equally important for...
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Finding Your Cool: “But I lose my cool…I can’t help it!”

No matter how difficult it is, try to remember the following points about discipline and behavior management:   Pick and choose your battles wisely, and stay firm...
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Cleaning Up A Spill

“Don’t Cry Over Spilt Milk!” Allow your child to assist with household chores. Give your child a cloth, a dishtowel, or a paper towel. Physically guide your child...
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Zipping and Unzipping

“Just Zip It!” Practice makes perfect.  Give your child opportunities to zip and unzip.  Present your child with sweaters, coats, pants, zip-loc bags, pocket books,...
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Sitting Alone

“Sittin” Pretty” Move your child to a sitting position and provide support at the hips or just above the hips. Fade your support as necessary. Set up a “Busy Box” or...
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Independently Dresses

“Dressed to the Nines” Give your child opportunities to assist with dressing. Make dressing fun and interesting for your child. Make sure the environment is relaxed and...
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AWE you? Or AWE you not?

To take stuff “for granted” is to be stagnant. To be stagnant is to survive rather than thrive. If you have allowed yourself to become “bored”...
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Standing Alone

“Stand On Your Own Two Feet” Use a standing position to remove your child’s coat. Hold the coat but not your child’s body. Following a bath place your child in a...
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Monitor the effectiveness of your strategy

Step 4: Monitor the effectiveness of your strategy Periodically monitor the effectiveness of your behavior management strategy.  You may need to monitor more frequently...
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Helping To Dry After a Bath

“UGH! Twisted Wet Pajamas!” Provide your child with opportunities to wash and dry dolls and toys. Give your child a small cloth or dishtowel to practice drying dolls...
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How Much Do Parents Really Matter?

The classic question of “Nature versus Nurture” has long ago given way to the question of the “Nurture of Nature.”  There have been outstanding, thought-provoking books...
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Anger: It’s all the rage

“You gotta vent, let it all out, go ahead, it’ll make you feel better.”  Such is the common wisdom about anger.  It seems, though, the...
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Combing/Brushing Hair

“Doin’ the Doo” Have your child go with you to the store to buy a comb or brush. Buy a small comb or brush for your child to use to brush a doll’s hair during play....
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Paving the Road to Self-Regulation (for children with hyper-sensitivity/anxiety)

Self-regulation of hyper-sensitivity/anxiety occurs along a continuum.  Recognition of the steps along that continuum is important so that you can help your child grow...
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Assisting with Bathing

“SCRUB in the TUB” Give your child a basin, a bar of soap and a washcloth. Provide your child with opportunities to wash dolls, toys, and dishes. Guide your child’s...
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Fun

I was recently reading “The Dangerous Book for Boys” by Gonn and Hal Iggulden.  The contents included (but were not limited to): the greatest paper...
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“OPEN WIDE!”

FEEDING During feeding, make sure that your child is always positioned appropriately (upright, at a 90-degree angle).  Never leave your child unattended.  Make sure all...
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Giving Up The Bottle

“What Do I Look Like, Some Sort of Baby?” Once your child has mastered drinking from a cup, gradually decrease the amount of liquids in the bottle. Give bottles less...
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Feeding Fixes for your Toddler and Preschooler

DISCLAIMER:  This information is NOT meant to apply to children with oral-motor or other medically- or physically-based feeding difficulties or disorders of sucking,...
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The “Dirty-Dozen”:  12 Reasons Why YOU WILL FAIL with your Behavior Management Strategies

Here are the “Dirty-Dozen”:  Twelve reasons why your behavior management efforts will fail.  These are different types of common, yet irrational, factually incorrect...
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Requesting Help To Clean-Up Spills

“Into Each Life, A Little Spill Must Fall” Your child may be resistant to help or may not know when or how to ask for help. Here are suggestions to help: When...
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Walking on egg-shells is for chickens

Do you S-P-E-L-L  O-U-T  W-O-R-D-S in front of your kids to purposefully prevent them from understanding what you are talking about?  I’m not talking about spelling out...
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Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Unhappiness

In the previous section we considered “Useless Dissatisfaction” and “Useful Dissatisfaction” in the terms of the moral obligation parents have to their children to be...
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SLEEP: Good Night!

How much sleep do we need? Infants usually sleep about 16 hours and  2-year-olds sleep about 10 to 14 hours (including naps). How common are sleep problems? 25% of kids...
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Holding a Writing Implement Properly

Holding a crayon or pen properly is important because it builds good habits that will facilitate neat and efficient hand-writing.   Use writing implements that...
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Magical things every parent should know about Peter Pan

James M. Barrie was born in 1860, as the ninth child of ten in a large Scottish family.  James was 6 years old when his brother, David, died in a skating accident, just...
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Rotary/Diagonal Chewing Patterns

“CHEW YOUR FOOD!” Present your child with a variety of foods. Vary the texture (e.g., mushy, crunchy, lumpy, etc.). Place the foods in different parts of your child’s...
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Hopping Forward Ten Feet on Either Foot Without Help

“Let’s Go Do The Hop!” Demonstrate hopping forward on one foot for your child. Talk about what you are doing as you are completing the skill. Repeat hopping several...
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Skipping

“Don’t Skip The Basics” Skipping can be a difficult skill for your child as it requires using both sides of the body in a cross pattern (i.e., left arms swings forward...
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PAIRenting: Where do you land (or fall) on ‘agreement’ with your partner in child-rearing?

It is often said that “You don’t know somebody until you live with them.”  We reject that notion, and, offer, instead, the following:  “You don’t know somebody until...
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All the simplicity money can’t buy

It’s a classic scene: the birthday gift sits in the distance, while the kids play with the wrapping paper and box the gift came in.  It’s enough with...
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Returning Objects To Their Proper Location When Finished with Them

“CLEAN UP THIS MESS!!” Go with your child to where the toys are kept (playroom, den, basement, bedroom). Take out a variety of toys that you know he likes to play with ...
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“Should I Be a Democrat, a Dictator, and/or a Doormat?”

Parenting decisions can be complex, yet a simple framework is helpful for seeing how three common styles (i.e., Democrat, Dictator, Doormat) vary along four dimensions...
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Wiping Nose with Help

“Don’t Look Down Your Nose At Me!” Leave a box of tissues within your child’s reach. Make sure the tissue is soft so it doesn’t irritate your child’s nose. During play,...
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“What is the difference between Rights and Privileges (and why is that SO important)?”

There are rights and privileges in the world. In each country, governments decide for their citizens what is a “right” and what is a “privilege.” In your role as...
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Modify as needed

Step 6:  Modify as needed Based on the results of Step 4 (Monitoring the Effectiveness of my Strategy) and Step 5 (Monitoring my own attitude and behavior in the...
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How many psychologists does it take to change a light bulb? One, but the light bulb has to want to change

Try to guess the best predictor of success for those who engage in therapy with a psychologist. Is it a patient factor, like the patient’s age, intelligence, or...
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The Best “Time-Out” Happens with “Time-In”

In our “A.T.I.P.” model of discipline (i.e., Avoiding, Teaching, Ignoring, or Punishing), by definition “Time-Out” falls into the “Punish” category, because it is...

Taking Care of Each Other

Up Wee Grow, Inc. was founded in 1996 by Andrew Vaughan, Ph.D., Lauren Resnick, M.S., CCC, SLP, and Anne Long, M.S., Sp.Ed..

We value Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion, and although these ideals are never truly fully achieved and completed, we strive to keep them ever-present in our day-to-day work.

We value equal access to opportunity, engagement, education, health, stability, respect, and compassionate care in all communities.

The obvious and subtle qualities that make us different also make us resilient and strong. Join us as we celebrate our passion and work: Taking care of each other.

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